|

| CHECK OUT THIS BLOGGER'S OPINION [Gina Cassidy] |
| 6/15/2009 |
FRIDAY, MAY 15, 2009 Jealous of Christopher West? Then Do it Better
I am reposting this blog entry because the way West has been treated by "Catholic" bloggers is insane. I mean that in all Christian Charity. If you have not read Christopher West's work, if you have not attended a seminar, if you have not talked to him, if you do not know what the man is about, I have no idea why you malign the man for evangelizing the Faith that you share. I highly suggest you read Mark 9:40 and get over it.
Last week on Nightline Christopher West was featured, along with the Theology of the Body, the revolutionary apologetics document on Humanae Vitae. I was honestly skeptical regarding the show as I thought that they were not going to give the topic the treatment that it deserved. The potential was too great for them to make it into a cultural joke.
I was wrong. I know that there are more than a few people who are "high minded theologians" who critique Christopher West on his approach and feel that he does not do Catholic Theology justice. I think they need to realize a few things, if they will listen, or even bother to read this.
There is a problem with our society in that we have completely lost the idea of "sexuality", "sex", "gender", "love", and "marriage". This can be traced to a number of things, but I choose to trace it to the date when Protestant denominations began to accept contraception as a viable means of spacing children within marriage.
Within time, this utilitarian attitude spread and it takes very little to see the complete snowball effect that has taken place in our society and gotten us to the point where we are actually performing eugenics on ourselves. Other sociologists and authors have taken up this cause so I feel no real need to get into it here, it is just safe to say that our society is broken in a number of ways.
In some areas of the country 70% of marriages end in divorce.
Child pornography is increasing in use and acceptance as the "age of consent" is lowered.
Children are increasingly seen as something to be avoided entirely.
Adultery is considered acceptable and almost expected in some circles.
Then number of sexually transmitted infections is nearing 40. This is over ten times the number that existed even 75 years ago.
The amount of money spent on pornography dwarfs sports, movies, and television.
Suicide rates in our country are through the roof.
In short, we have lost the meaning of, and the ability to really find satisfaction in love. Try as we might, we cannot reverse this trend and it may be two or three generations before the complete impact is felt and real action is taken.
Enter Christopher West.
While most theologians wax poetical about the needs of the world and high minded theology and how many people have lost the true meaning of their anthropology, West talks about Hugh Hefner, U2, and the orgasm.
In short, West brings the high theology to the level of the every day.
I don't see anything wrong with that. In fact, I admire it. I admire it because I am not a high minded theologian. I can read the documents of the popes and I can read the writings of theologians, but I could never generate anything like that. I don't have the mind for it. I love teaching and speaking to audiences because I feel that I am able to put things in a way that they understand. I certainly can't do it in the way that West does.
See, most academics I come across are great people, with great ideas, with lofty goals and a love of the truth. They also suffer from having so much in their heads, they don't realize how little they have in common with the regular person who clocks in and out of life every day wondering if there is something bigger than it all. They don't understand why the regular guy doesn't get passionate about Lumen Gentium or the promise ofEschatological Man. Or even why they don't understand the terms.
Thank God for West. Thank God for every single person who decided to take these incredibly intelligent people and use what they have, the gifts that God has given them to bring that to ordinary people. To bridge the gap. To be a bridge builder. As if to open the door and say, "Look, there is so much in this room! I know that you may not understand a lot of it and how to use it, but if you just go in and start to look around, you will never leave!"
If we simply choose sainthood and to surrender ourselves to the will of God, we may actually become one of those high-minds. If we lose sight of the fact that we are always called to serve the poorest of the poor, the "sick" that Christ speaks of, the prostitute and the sinner, and that there are many parts to the Body of Christ, just as there are many gifts, and that each of those parts has a purpose, then we lose sight of our desperate need for unity with all of the Body.
At least if you are going to criticize Christopher West, admit that you are jealous he is getting a bigger audience than you. Admit that you are upset that you were not featured on national television. At least be honest about your own arrogance to somehow "know better than everyone else."
Then after you admit that... do better. Reach more people. Love more people. Show Christ's love to more people.
I would bet that if you did that, Christopher West would be one of the first people to congratulate you, to tell you "good job." To pray for you. To support you because the culture is going to attack us enough. We don't need attacks from the same team.
So thanks, Christopher West. Thanks for bringing the truth to people in a way that they can understand. Thanks for "lighting the fuse on the time bomb" as you have expressed is your deepest desire.
Know that you are in my prayers.
Today, reach out to those in your life that need to hear the truth. Pray that the Holy Spirit gives you the words and that God puts you in the situation. Then bring it to them on their level.
For an objective treatment of this interview, look to Chris Faddis.POSTED BY TODD LEMIEUX AT 3:48 PM |
| E-Mail
Author |
|
| RE: WEST [Kevin Miller] |
| 6/15/2009 |
Again, I haven't read West's own stuff at any length. But from what I can tell, he seems to be a good Catholic teacher, very much on the right side of the culture wars, whose courage, charity, and intelligence have borne much fruit.
I doubt that anyone should deny this, and certainly no one should otherwise attack West the person (indeed, in general, we ought not attack other persons), or be jealous of him (that would, perhaps, be especially stupid).
None of this means, however, that there's anything wrong (either in principle, or even as a matter of prudence) with thoughtful and charitable public criticism of some of what he says.
Indeed, I would argue that precisely as part of giving authentic support to each other in the situation in which we find ourselves in our contemporary world, we who are sincerely trying to convey the Church's message regarding the human person, human life, marriage, sexuality, and so on ought to be willing to take part in the sort of conversation with one another that includes such constructive criticism (and that responds to it by engaging its substance). |
| E-Mail
Author |
|
| RE: DARK AND STORMY [Kevin Miller] |
| 6/15/2009 |
A reader emails:
My parents went to Bermuda on their anniversary 10 years ago. My Dad loved the Dark and Stormy. Finding ginger beer stateside can be a challenge, but is worth the effort.
Fortunately, Kim and I found some fairly easily. We were having a few people over yesterday and I wanted to do sort of a Bermuda/Caribbean-themed meal. I marinated and grilled some skinless chicken thighs, tossed a salad (with romaine, cherry tomatoes, cucumber, mushrooms, and avocado, and ranch dressing), and cut up some French bread. The accompanying beverage was the Dark and Stormy. While shopping at Heinen's for other groceries, we found ginger beer. We ended up buying Reed's Premium. It worked well, I think. We also bought a bottle of Vernor's ginger ale - possibly the strongest ginger ale out there, from what I've heard - and tried it in a Dark and Stormy the night before. That was okay, but I don't think as good as with the Reed's. Heinen's also had Saranac Ginger Beer. I've had (and liked) Saranac beer; I hadn't known that they make a ginger beer. Sometime we'll give that a try. I'm not sure what other brands would be available around here. We had figured that if we couldn't find anything at Heinen's, we'd go to Trader Joe's - which, I've heard, sells Reed's. I wonder if they have Reed's Extra - does anybody know?
Oh, and the rum for the Dark and Stormy was Bacardi Select dark rum. In Berumda, they use Gosling's Black Seal, but I've heard that Gosling's isn't available everywhere in the U.S., and they didn't have it at the one liquor store we checked, and the waiter at Spring Garden had told us that Bacardi dark would work fine.
Dessert, by the way, was strawberry shortcake - using sliced pound cake, sliced fresh berries (no sugar; I've heard that some people mix the berries with sugar ahead of time, but I prefer the clean taste of plain berries), and whipped cream (again, with no sugar added - I like the clean taste of plain whipped cream). |
| E-Mail
Author |
|
| NEW CLOUD FORMATION [Rachel Watkins] |
| 6/15/2009 |
In honor of my wanna-be meteorologist daughter, there seems to be a new cloud formation out there that is pretty impressive.
It has been called the "Armageddon" cloud by some due to its rather impressive and intimidating appearance, while others call it a 'Cousteau' cloud in honor of the recently deceased oceanographer at is seems to be an ocean in the air.
Interested? Check out the story here: http://www.usatoday.com/weather/research/2009-06-14-cloud_N.htm
and here: http://cloudappreciationsociety.org/
As for the last link, you can join the Cloud Appreciation Society (out of UK) if you love clouds as we do here. |
| E-Mail
Author |
|
| MORE ON CHRIS WEST [Gina Cassidy] |
| 6/15/2009 |
On the issues of Christopher West I prefer to view things from possibly a much wider angle lens . Rather than viewing him from a theological perspective and dissecting his work and his person let's take a broader view and look at the world we now live in. As Fr. Corapi pointed out on the radio yesterday, look at how the family and world has changed in the last 50 yrs. No doubt, it is drastic and I could go on and on , abortion, divorce, child abuse, sex abuse, priest abuse, the destruction of the family. We are in the midst of some of the greatest spiritual warfare in our time and perhaps all of history and it seems very few are paying attention to the war tactics. The devil has made a clear assault on the very connection of love and life and he has been very successful. Enter one of the greatest warriors in this battle/ reaching thousands over the last decade like no other and untangling the plan of the devil and exposing his underhanded deceptions. Christopher West uses his entire person to live out his vocation. His talent does not lie just in his interpretation of theology but in fully living his gifts and talents to convert others and bring them to the Light of Christ through not only his theology background but his giftedness of relaying the message in an extremely effective way. He did not sell a million of copies of his books, touch thousands and be asked to be on Nightline because he was unable to effectively communicate.
In order to dissect his person and his ministry one has to look at him in the fullness of his person. This is where I think the internet fails us along with those who have criticized him. We certainly would not go to a conference or seminar, raise our hand and begin dissecting or evaluating the speaker so what makes it okay to do it on the internet? It is shocking that there is an in depth discussion based on hearsay of what he may have said to guests at a conference in the context of praying to the Holy Spirit.
I think Chris does a amazingly accurate job of capturing the hearts and troubled perspective of his audience by speaking strongly to the “sex has nothing to do with God crowd” and the “sex is unholy crowd”. Greg does an awesome job of discussing this in his first chapter of his new Holy Sex book. If there is any expert on how to reach these two crowds and have a thorough understanding of what Catholics need to live a Sacramental Marriage and in holy intimacy it would be Greg Popcak who has counseled thousands of Catholics falling into these to categories and knowing not only what it takes to reach them but what it takes to lead them to live it out in real life. Perhaps we might take a closer look at the war before we critique the warriors who are diving head first into battles and winning.
|
| E-Mail
Author |
|
| OUTRAGEOUS FORMULA MARKETING [Pamela H. Pilch] |
| 6/16/2009 |
ACTION ALERT – Mead Johnson’s “Breast Milk Formula”
Formula company Mead Johnson has sunk to a new low with the launch of a website promoting its Enfamil brand. The website, targetted at U.S. consumers, is entitled “The Breast Milk Formula – Enfamil” and uses the slogan “Our closest formula to breastmilk.” The company claims that its formula produces health outcomes “similar to breastfed babies”. As evidence, Mead Johnson cites a study conducted in 2007 that supposedly showed that babies fed on Enfamil had eye development virtually identical to breastfed babies. The company calls this study “independent” research, and yet the study was carried out by the Retina Foundation of the Southwest in Dallas, TX. According to the Retina Foundation’s 2007 annual report, Mead Johnson gave the foundation over $100,000 the year that the study was published. How is this independent?
This marketing campaign is a blatant case of false advertising. Because this is a site originating in the United States and aimed at American consumers, it is regulated in the United States by the Federal Trade Commission. Anyone (including Canadians) can lodge a complaint with the FTC by visiting https://www.ftccomplaintassistant.gov/. They have a quick online form set up which only takes a few minutes. Most of the fields will not apply to this particular complaint, but at the end you can make your case against Mead Johnson.
Please take the time to lodge a complaint with the FTC and help stop this aggressive and misleading marketing. You might want to adapt the following text for the final section of the form:
Mead Johnson Nutritionals is engaged in flagrant false advertising. They have launched a website that calls their Enfamil brand the "Breast Milk Formula", claiming that babies who are fed on it are as healthy as breastfed infants. Scientific evidence points to the fact that formula-fed babies are at increased risk for infections and long term ilnesses such as cancers, obesity, diabetes and cardiac disease. Contrary to what Mead Johnson’s website states, the negative effects of artificial feeding include decreased visual acuity and reduced cognitive development. Aggressive and false marketing like this has resulted in only 13% of U.S. mothers meeting expert recommendations to breastfeed exclusively for the first 6 months of their child’s life. Please take action to stop Mead Johnson’s deception.
The website in question is: http://
ACTION ALERT – Mead Johnson’s “Breast Milk Formula”
Formula company Mead Johnson has sunk to a new low with the launch of a website promoting its Enfamil brand. The website, targetted at U.S. consumers, is entitled “The Breast Milk Formula – Enfamil” and uses the slogan “Our closest formula to breastmilk.” The company claims that its formula produces health outcomes “similar to breastfed babies”. As evidence, Mead Johnson cites a study conducted in 2007 that supposedly showed that babies fed on Enfamil had eye development virtually identical to breastfed babies. The company calls this study “independent” research, and yet the study was carried out by the Retina Foundation of the Southwest in Dallas, TX. According to the Retina Foundation’s 2007 annual report, Mead Johnson gave the foundation over $100,000 the year that the study was published. How is this independent?
This marketing campaign is a blatant case of false advertising. Because this is a site originating in the United States and aimed at American consumers, it is regulated in the United States by the Federal Trade Commission. Anyone (including Canadians) can lodge a complaint with the FTC by visiting https://www.ftccomplaintassistant.gov/. They have a quick online form set up which only takes a few minutes. Most of the fields will not apply to this particular complaint, but at the end you can make your case against Mead Johnson.
Please take the time to lodge a complaint with the FTC and help stop this aggressive and misleading marketing. You might want to adapt the following text for the final section of the form:
Mead Johnson Nutritionals is engaged in flagrant false advertising. They have launched a website that calls their Enfamil brand the "Breast Milk Formula", claiming that babies who are fed on it are as healthy as breastfed infants. Scientific evidence points to the fact that formula-fed babies are at increased risk for infections and long term ilnesses such as cancers, obesity, diabetes and cardiac disease. Contrary to what Mead Johnson’s website states, the negative effects of artificial feeding include decreased visual acuity and reduced cognitive development. Aggressive and false marketing like this has resulted in only 13% of U.S. mothers meeting expert recommendations to breastfeed exclusively for the first 6 months of their child’s life. Please take action to stop Mead Johnson’s deception.
|
| E-Mail
Author |
|
| KISSLING EXTOLS "BAD" CATHOLIC WOMEN [Pamela H. Pilch] |
| 6/16/2009 |
Sigh.
Let me ask the other women here (and reading here) - Rachel, Gina, Lisa P., Kim M.... have you ever thought of yourself as merely a "sophisticated rectory housekeeper" before?
I know I haven't.
Anyway, don't feel bad. Kissling classes Mary Ann Glendon and Helen Alvare in that same "rectory housekeeper" category.
John Paul II New Feminists Unite!
|
| E-Mail
Author |
|
| CLEANSE THE PRIESTHOOD OF "FILTH." [Gregory Popcak] |
| 6/16/2009 |
I have to admit, when I first read that this was to be the "Year of the Priest" I had an unpleasant knee-jerk reaction. I'm not sure why, but I expected some "rah-rah" document that pushed vocations and reasserted the inestimable value of the clergy and left it at that.
I shouldn't have doubted. B-16's announcement is a very muscular proclamation insisting that the priesthood must be "cleansed of filth." I have to say, it's refreshing to hear.
Frankly, I hate to say it, but I have to admit that I am Catholic largely in spite of the priesthood. I don't mean the priesthood as a concept. I grately admire the Catholic sense of the ministerial priesthood. I am proud of, and value our emphasis on apostolic succession and the sacraments. No, I mean the actual priesthood. Having spent my life in ministry, first on the parish level and later on the national and international stage, I have found that priests, and even many bishops, are often more of a hindrance than a help. As a long time veteran of Church politics (and confidante of not a few bishops) once shared with me, "Chanceries are where good ideas go to die." More particularly, in my experience, chanceries are often the places where good ideas that were nearly beaten to death on the parish level go to finally be euthanized.
Another example of the source of my frustration. Last night on the Sirius/XM radio program, we had a call from a priest who was working with a young woman who had an eating disorder. She was in counseling but he was doing some "pastoral counseling" as well. He wanted to know if there was anything he could say to mive things along. I offered some general counseling comments, and then I asked, "Have you administered Annointing of the Sick?" He said, "I haven't. I hadn't thought of that." He was grateful, and I was happy I could be helpful, but to be honest, I left the call thinking, "WHY DID I JUST HAVE TO TELL YOU TO ACTUALLY MINISTER TO THIS WOMAN AS A PRIEST AND NOT JUST AS SOME SECOND RATE ROGERIAN COUNSELOR?"
Don't get me wrong. I have no doubt this priest was a good, faithful man who really cared about the Church and the souls in his care. But that makes it even worse for me. This was a good priest I had to remind to be a priest. It would be like me talking to my pastor about what I could do to help my clients better and being struck by a bolt from the blue when he said, "Well, have you tried doing therapy?" Sigh.
Although Pope Benedict, in his proclamation of the Year of the Priest is referring to the filth of the sexual abuse crisis, I hope that seminaries and the clergy will get the message and start addressing the filth of clericalism, lazy catechesis, narcissism, and the revisioning of the priesthood as "therapists-of-the-cloth."
It would be nice to be proud of the priesthood. Not just as a concept but as a lived reality. Until that changes, I'm afraid that there will always be a huge vocation crisis--even if the seminaries were to fill to overflowing. |
| E-Mail
Author |
|
| RE: NEW CLOUD FORMATION [Kevin Miller] |
| 6/16/2009 |
Rachel - Since they don't seem to have agreed upon a name for it yet, maybe you could push to have it named after your daughter?
And maybe she should also be in touch with the HMS Meteorologist regarding her interest.
I actually wanted to be a meteorologist for a while when I was a kid. I can't recall exactly why or when (or to what - I think I wanted to be one or two things between then and wanting to be a lawyer, which preceded wanting to be a physician, which preceded wanting to be a molecular biologist, which preceded wanting to be a political scientist or philosopher, which preceded wanting to be a theologian) I changed my mind. |
| E-Mail
Author |
|
| UK DOCTORS DISCOURAGE OLDER MOMS [Pamela H. Pilch] |
| 6/16/2009 |
Royal College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists says women should start their families in their 20s and end by age 35. Urge women over 35 to have contraceptive counseling. (Arrrgh.)
The college fears too many women still do not understand that their fertility declines after 35. It wants the NHS and the Department of Health to start alerting the public to the fact that deferred childbirth can mean fertility or pregnancy complications. Schools, colleges, GPs' surgeries, family-planning centres and sexual-health clinics should all issue information to help "ensure that women are aware that, biologically, the best age for childbearing is 20-35 years", said the college.
In addition, GPs and other health professionals should talk to all women over 30 about the effects of ageing on fertility when they talk to them about contraception, for instance, it said.
Royal College of Midwives
defended women's right to have children as late as their 40s. "We support women in their choice to have a baby in their late 30s and 40s, although pregnancy complications can be more common in older women. They have higher rates of induction of labour and Caesarean births, which present greater risks to both mother and baby. Despite this, we support a woman's decision to choose when to embark upon a pregnancy."
And Susan Seenan of Infertility Network UK, which supports couples who have fertility problems, said: "Delaying having children until you are in your 30s is a choice many women make, and in fact often they are not in a position to have children earlier in life."
The RCM's statement still strikes me as fairly negative ("DESPITE this..") but at least they acknowledge that the age at which to end childbearing (naturally at least) need not be arbitrarily set at 35. Women in their late 30s and early 40s can do just fine, and there are benefits to childbearing (and breastfeeding), especially bearing and breastfeeding many children.
I have no problem with encouraging women to be open to life earlier. I certainly wish I had been, so I could have had a larger family. Nevertheless, all of my sons were born in my 30s and we continue to pray for the blessing of more children as long as I am able to have them (and my friends and co-bloggers could add this intention for me to their prayer lists... ;) - at my age I do need all the help I can get...).
This emphasis on the decline of fertility is useful in terms of helping women not assume that if they put their career first all their lives that they will have uncomplicated childbearing if they start at 45.
But of course insisting that all women should be done with childbearing by the age of 35 and use artificial contraception for the remaining childbearing years is extreme. Besides the health risks to older women from hormonal contraception (which I'm sure the RCOG thinks is perfectly fine for women at any age), there are plenty of healthy women who have children but want to continue building their families into their 40s. Each pregnant woman is different and many women in their late 30s and early 40s are in excellent health - many in better health than some women in their 20s before they become age- and health-conscious.
Women should remember that fertility does decline, but all women should lead healthy lifestyles, and continue to be open to life as long as the Lord is calling them. An arbitrary cut-off of age 35 would limit many Catholic mothers who remain open to life for the full extent of their childbearing years and this is in no way necessary. Instead, women should be encouraged to practice excellent nutrition, exercise and stress management - this would do much more for maternal and child health overall. |
| E-Mail
Author |
|
| RE: CLEANSE THE PRIESTHOOD OF "FILTH" [Kevin Miller] |
| 6/16/2009 |
Greg, Magister has a way of making things up, and I think he's done it again. Neither the Bruguès speech he reprints, nor the Benedict XVI address he links, seems to mention the matter of "filth." He's probably recalling the reference to this problem that then-Card. Ratzinger made when he wrote the meditations and prayers for the Good Friday 2005 Way of the Cross at the Colosseum (see meditation for ninth station). |
| E-Mail
Author |
|
| PHYSICIAN LOBBY WILL DISCOURAGE HOME BIRTH AND CPMS [Pamela H. Pilch] |
| 6/16/2009 |
See the press release from The Big Push organization (promoting access to the care of Certified Professional Midwives in all 50 states).
AMA and ACOG are drafting model legislation that would eliminate home birth and birth with Certified Professional Midwives (who specialize in out-of-hospital birth). The safety of out-of-hospital birth with CPMs has been demonstrated with good research evidence, and at the same time that it offers good safety (especially to low-risk mothers and their babies), it greatly reduces maternal morbidity, and the incidence of labor induction, pharmacological pain relief and unnecessary C-sections.
Physicians should work collaboratively with CPMs (and CNMs who attend home births) to ensure seamless transfer to high-quality obstetrical care when needed. This would do much more to enhance the safety of mothers and babies than trying to outlaw all home births or all non-nurse midwives. Before many states had legalized and licensed non-nurse midwives, women who were committed to home birth simply used illegal midwives or gave birth unassisted at home. A well-trained CPM, backed up by a qualified physician ready to meet her and her client at the hospital at the first sign of a difficulty is a much safer scenario, and an option that all women should have the right to choose, even if only a few women would prefer it. |
| E-Mail
Author |
|
| IF I FOLLOWED THE RECOMMENDATIONS OF ROYAL COLLEGE [Rachel Watkins] |
| 6/16/2009 |
I would not have 6 of my 11 children - a chilling, disturbing and very sad thought. I had my 12 year old when I was 35 and my youngest when I was 45. What would they do with me??
In pausing to consider each of them in turn - their talents, qualities and annoyances - makes me laugh and tear up with joy and pride. I am eager to see the world when they hit it as adults just as I have been amazed at what my older ones are already doing.
I never had anything but support from my midwives who encouraged me in being healthy for each baby and in between each pregnancy.
I agree -in principal - that a woman's health must be taken into consideration for each pregnancy for an unhealthy mom is unlikely to have healthy pregnancy but what am I with both MS and thyroid disease??
To my credit I have never been truly overweight and keep active (now including regular exercise). In fact, I feel/look better than I have in years and would welcome another baby if God so desired.
So, I would say that you might want to throw those British ideas into the brink with the tea!
|
| E-Mail
Author |
|
| THE YEAR OF THE PRIEST [Rachel Watkins] |
| 6/16/2009 |
I was all ready to write a piece outlining some of the ideas the Watkins' have in store for celebrating the Year of the Priest and then I read Greg's piece. What a bummer!
I can agree with all he writes but want to add - BUT STILL.....
There is much to celebrate with this upcoming year as the priesthood is a gift from Christ unequaled in any other religion. While there exists some priest who may bring shame to their vocation, we cannot be any more upset than Christ himself and His mother. And overall, I would say that there is more to celebrate in the priesthood than lament.
And in regard to the priest on the phone - his problem seems to be one we have created. Too many people don't want a priest who reminds of our sins, calls us to be like Christ or makes uncomfortable but rather a good guy who will merely listen and not comment.
This Year of the Priest, I think we can make some resolutions as a family to help restore some of the dignity in the vocation that may have faded.
-Write letters of thanks to every priest who has positively impacted on your family - regardless of their own faith. Thank those who married you, baptized your children and preach to you every week. Don't make any comments or criticisms just a "Thank You". How often to you think they hear that?
-Send letters of encouragement and support to your diocese's seminary and office of vocations. Commit to praying for the young men in formation (and their families).
-Pray for new vocations (perhaps from your own family?). If our seminaries are empty what you doing to help fill them.
I, for one, am excited for this upcoming year. I have brother who is a priest and a son who is discerning the same path. Let us forgive the vocation as a whole for the few bad apples and rejoice in the shiny, glowing ones who are there bringing Christ to us.
|
| E-Mail
Author |
|
| HDTV SWITCH - HOW DID IT GO FOR YOU? [Rachel Watkins] |
| 6/17/2009 |
We don't have cable. Prior to the switch over to HD we had approx. 6 channels regularly - with the major networks from either Baltimore or Philly and public TV. Depending on sunspots and/or the weather we might get an add'l one or two of the independent variety. We were content as our TV watching is limited by choice.
BUT when we made the switch - got the boxes (did you know the coupons had an expiration date?? We didn't. When we received the envelope we didn't even open it until we went to make the purchase and as the date was delayed, we waited as well. We have applied for replacements (which you can do) and our local Radio Shack guy said he will fix it for us.
So, to enjoy the whole experience a bit more we didn't put on the boxes until after the switch. We actually watched our local news to see the whole thing happen and our screens go blue. Kinda neat.
Matt put on the boxes when he got home and NOTHING! Not a single channel came in. Up he went to the roof and our antenna. Using our telephones as intercoms, he moved it up and down and around. In the best position we had four stations (three were the same station giving us an all-weather station and two 'regular' stations. But those lasted mere hours and didn't work at all the next morning.
Off to Radio Shack where we get another antenna. This one works no better than the other so I'm returning it today.
In the end, today, we have no stations. NONE. I'm told by many that just getting cable will solve our problem. Not going to happen.
Matt found a youtube link to a homemade antenna with coat hangers! Seriously. We're going to try it, it will be neat project for our 12 year old to build and it won't cost us much.
I'll let you know how it turns out. In the end, I am pondering the notion of a conspiracy in which the gov't and the media machines are striving to make everyone who wants some TV to get cable or satellite even if they don't want to (or can't afford it). I am not committing to a conspiracy theory (yet) but are more than frustrated with the entire situation.
With the good weather, we are outside more anyways but having public TV with a toddler was helpful at times. Now, if we need to, we are watching more on the computer such as Hulu and Netflix Watch It Now - including some old Sesame Street episodes and original Blue's Clues (I like Steve more than Joe anyways).
Life without TV isn't so bad...... |
| E-Mail
Author |
|
| NYT BLOG FACILITATES AN ABORTION - HEARTBREAKING!!! [Pamela H. Pilch] |
| 6/17/2009 |
A reader sent me this - it is absolutely heartbreaking - and outrageous for the NYT to do this!!
A 22-year-old wrote to a NYTimes blog asking for advice about her unplanned pregnancy and her upcoming 2-year, intensive graduate school program. With help from the readers of said blog, she chose to abort. Her final letter to the blogger is particularly painful. She writes that she ruled out giving the child up for adoption because she was already to attached to it. It's hard to comprehend the mindset that views giving the child away to loving parents is worse than having the child killed. After repeated that she's done nothing wrong, made the right decision, felt relief as soon as she reached that decision, etc., she ends her latter with a miserably hopeful plea that she will, one day, do something right.
This is a perfect example of the phenomenon explained in Abortion: A Failure to Communicate. This young woman feels "attached" to her "zygote", whom her friends name "Ziggy", and she meets with an adoption agency. All expenses will be paid, she will receive so much support, but she is "TOO ATTACHED" to her baby to give it up for adoption. That would make her a "bad mom."
So she - influenced by the readers of this NYT blog - decides to abort the baby instead.
WHAT IS WRONG WITH OUR SOCIETY WHEN WE DECIDE THAT BECAUSE WE ARE TOO ATTACHED TO SOMEONE TO LOVE THEM THAT WE THINK GETTING RID OF THEM IS THE BETTER OPTION!?!?
In our society a "prestigious and rigorous" graduate program is prioritized over the life of a child (and a grandchild)!
|
| E-Mail
Author |
|
| MORE ON 22-YEAR-OLD WOMAN/ ABORTION/ NYT BLOG [Pamela H. Pilch] |
| 6/17/2009 |
Readers -everyone, every single one of us, should read this link where the 22-year-old woman who chose an abortion with the support and encouragement of 700 NYT blog readers, and her family and friends, explains her decision.
This should be required reading for every pro-life activist everywhere.
Read the laundry list of the ways this mother - and this baby - have been failed by society and individuals.
1) The adoption agency people were wonderful, offered tons of support but Mom was "too attached" to the baby to give him or her up for adoption.
2) Mom began to consider keeping the baby but GRANDMOTHER - according to the Mom for "the first time" - expressed her "vision" for Mom's life - a happy and healthy pregnancy "surrounded by family and friends" - "not this." Mom was moved by the first time Grandmother had ever expressed a "vision" for Mom's life.
READERS: PLEASE GO EXPRESS YOUR VISION OF YOUR CHILD'S LIFE TO THEM RIGHT NOW! AND EXPRESS IT AGAIN AND AGAIN AND AGAIN!
3) Graduate program is so rigorous - no flexibility, no incompletes - no room for a baby. Professors allegedly are especially harsh to pregnant women in the program. Mom can't miss a single class, much less give birth or care for a baby or the "whole program" would be risked.
4) Graduate program works with the Gates Foundation (!) and will help children in the developing world get mosquito nets or children here get child support checks - this program "matters" - i..e. is worth the sacrifice of giving up this child.
5) Needs friends to rally around but friends are evaporating, and Mom feels that she shouldn't be so "needy" anyway - her "village" of college graduates are "vulnerable and scared" themselves (all of them headed off to prestitgious graduate schools!?!?) and the last thing it needs is to raise a baby (the village, that is).
6) Mom is too well-off financially to get food stamps, WIC, subsidized child care - but "too poor" to go to school and raise a baby .
7) Father of the baby won't "step up" financially, but has "stepped up" emotionally - is "desperately trying to do the right thing" - has offered a ride to the doctor for the abortion.
8) Mom and Dad didn't do anything wrong - "birth control fails." This abortion is just a necessity in a world where, you know, birth control fails.
9) By going through this process Mom is now reminded of how extremely important graduate school is - she can enter her program with renewed appreciation for it.
10) Mom admits (with admirable honesty) that after 3 tough years in college, she "selfishly and childishly" wants to do something "I enjoy for a change - something for me". A baby would interfere with this goal.
11) Mom feels so happy now that she's made this decision.
12) Mom is focusing on the wanted child she will have "in a few years" with a man she feels better with. The life of THAT child will be so much better because of what she is doing now.
13) Mom wonders if she is even capable of HAVING a healthy child right now - "there is so much more to being a good birth mother than avoiding alcohol and eating right" - Mom feels it is more responsible to have the abortion and not "put too much on" herself, rather than not do everything that goes into growing a healthy child.
14) Mom feels bad that she's "given up" - she wanted to be a "tough mother who braved the world for her child" - but now wonders if that isn't really the "selfish decision".
15) Concludes a baby is "too precious and wonderful to not plan for." She owed it to her children not to have this baby.
16) By completing this graduate program, this Mom may be able to "work on women's issues" and make a million dollars and "start a scholarship program for pregnant graduate students." (Why would such a program be needed, if abortion is such an excellent solution to the problem of pregnant graduate students...?)
17) Mom believes that something good can come of this.
18) Mom reflects in closing, "I know I'll do something right one of these days."
I am not blaming this young woman. A crisis pregnancy is shocking and heart-wrenching for every woman who faces it, and she has been failed at every turn by those who should be laying down their lives for her, and the baby, not to mention by a society that is overrun by materialism, and lack of respect for motherhood, and human life itself.
But it is important to realize that this is not the "worst case" scenario that pro-abortion activists always trot out to justify the procedure even late in pregnancy. This is not an 11-year-old incest victim. This is an adult, a highly intelligent college graduate, budding professional, with loving family and supportive friends. This is someone who, even without the support of her boyfriend, would have had a lot to give her baby. But she, and everyone in her world, are formed by the values our culture promotes. The strength of society's anti-life values, and their reinforcement at every turn, led this mother, who was at the outset entirely open to giving this baby life, either through adoption or parenting, to embrace abortion as the only really VIRTUOUS choice. She overcame with considerable difficulty her own instinct to give this baby life (and now clearly is wrestling with the feeling that somehow, even with all the justification, and the accolades of the New York Times and its readers, that she has done something wrong - see her concluding remark below).
Sad. |
| E-Mail
Author |
|
| MS CLINICAL TRIALS [Rachel Watkins] |
| 6/17/2009 |
Earlier I had blogged about the positive signs being seen by estriol in female MS patients. From Summer edition of "Momentum", the magazine of the Nat'l MS Society comes this:
Rhonda R. Voskuhl, MD (UCLA), published her first study of gender differences in MS in 1996. Twelve years later is the clinical study of the sex hormone estriol.
"We saw how more women were affected by MS than men, and how the disease tended to improve in late pregnancy," Dr. Voskuhl said. "It had to be a clue in how this disease works.".....
"Now Dr. Voskuhl and collaborators are testing whether a combination of standard Copaxone (glatiramer acetate) therapy and oral estriol can slow disease course and activity."....
"The beauty of estriol is that it can be given as a pill, not a shot and also that it's not a new drug; it has decades of safety behind it," said Dr. Voskuhl.
Interested for yourself or someone you know? Sixteen sites nationwide are recruiting - www.nationalMSsociety.org/trialsrecruiting |
| E-Mail
Author |
|
| NYT BLOG - ABORTION [Rachel Watkins] |
| 6/18/2009 |
I fear the judgement of any of those who posted who are now complicit in this action. I used to wonder about that in many examinations of conscience - "Have you in any way assisted in an procuring an abortion?" All those who posted have said 'yes' wether they know it or not. How sad for them.
But truly, how absolutely tragic for this young woman. Pam's observations are true - she chose to kill her baby in order to possibly save others. Killed a baby she was 'too attached to' to give up for adoption??
I do not know how to prevent this from happening again as there are websites that promote an help young girls become anorexic, give terrorists instructions on building bombs and support for those who are into 'cutting themselves'. Can an abortion support site be too far away (if not already out there).
But on the other side, there are sites that give support to those seeking to continue a difficult/unplanned pregnancy. She didn't seek one of those did she? She went to where she knew she would get the answer she wanted. From her last comments tho' it seems clear she got a result (at least emotionally), that she did not expect.
She will remain in my prayers. |
| E-Mail
Author |
|
| WEATHER.COM HAS A "MOMMY & BABY" METEROLOGIST [Rachel Watkins] |
| 6/18/2009 |
I was checking out the nat'l weather via www.weather.com as we are on day 6 without TV and I needed to find out the forecast for this evening.
As a part of our Father's Day celebration, Matt and I are headed out to an outdoor concert tonight. The weather doesn't look great but it will go off rain or shine so we're planning on looking drop dead gorgeous in our rain coats and wellies!
Anyways, check out the national 3 day forecast and you'll see a most beautiful pregnant forecaster. She looks wonderful! It was an unexpected surprise and brought a real smile to my face tho' the forecast of on/off showers didn't. |
| E-Mail
Author |
|
| ANYONE YOU KNOW GETTING MARRIED? [Rachel Watkins] |
| 6/18/2009 |
Check out this link to a youtube video on the do's and don'ts of a Catholic wedding.
The piece off of USA Today is witty as it lets you know that Winnie the Pooh quotes should not be a part of your wedding vows.
It is a funny little piece while being formative as well. Consider passing it along (or watch it for yourself).
I think our resident newlyweds did not require such instruction but sadly we have family and friends who did (and either did not receive it or ignored it).
http://content.usatoday.com/communities/religion/post/2009/06/68208253/1?loc=interstitialskip
|
| E-Mail
Author |
|
| MY THOUGHTS ON CHRISTOPHER WEST [Rachel Watkins] |
| 6/18/2009 |
"For the whole law is fulfilled in one one word, "You shall love your neighbor as yourself." But if you bite and devour one another take heed that you are not consumed by one another." Gal. 5:14-15
I have been following the debate back and forth as I have appreciated some of what West has written myself.
I have been embarrassed by those who feel they can, anonymously, be so unkind in their criticisms. We do have a habit to 'eat our own' don't we.
This current situation is one of several - including a long-ago attack that including accusations about myself - that has gone on between 'faithful' Catholics. Satan is certainly 'twitching his tail' as a good friend likes to say. We are eating out own.
I am in no position to defend Mr. West but I would like to point out some realities that some people seem to have either forgotten or not realized.
-The current generation of young adults, who comprise most of Mr. West's audience, do not know a world without ready access to contraception, pornography or divorce. They have been so dulled by our sexually saturated society that speaking to them clearly and honestly about sex is necessary.
-There are also many for whom any discussion of sex is embarrassing, discomforting and, for a few, a near occasion of sin. While there are some discussions of sex that are inappropriate, it is not true for EVERY discussion of sex. (Not to be glib, but do these people cut out "Song of Songs" from their Bible?)
There needs to be honest, clear and healthy discussion of sex. We need to take it back from Hollywood and the internet and it seems to me that Mr. West is making a faithful attempt to do just that. I am sure he is making some mistakes as we all do but the public lynching he is enduring is not how Christians act.
I'm remembering his work and his family in our family's prayers.
|
| E-Mail
Author |
|
| OBAMA DEPRIVES FLY OF RIGHT-TO-LIFE SAYS PETA [Pamela H. Pilch] |
| 6/18/2009 |
I once wrote to PETA to ask them why they advocated compassion for chickens facing death at the hands of KFC, but not for human infants in utero, and they wrote me back with boilerplate language about abortion being a personal choice.
After the President very publically swatted and then killed a fly during an interview with CNBC yesterday, the outspoken animal rights group PETA (People for the Ethical Treatment of Animals) said they wished Obama had served a better example.
“We support compassion for the even the smallest animals," says Bruce Friedrich, VP for Policy at PETA. “We support giving insects the benefit of the doubt."
Friedrich says PETA supports "brushing flies away rather than killing them" and was disappointed that the President had gone ahead and squashed the pesky fly.
Obama has no personal choice to swat a fly?
I guess I am in trouble now too - I've been swatting mosquitoes that land on my 3-year-old who is in leukemia treatment that suppresses his immune system. With low blood counts, he could develop a catastrophic infection through a mosquito bite. But then again, when ALL life is EQUAL (except human life, which to PETA is worth less)....Yikes!
Of course, maybe the theologians here can craft some sort of self-defense justification for Jonathan to kill mosquitoes on his person....
I must say that I am by no means a lightweight on animal rights. It was an animal rights comment that I first submitted to Kevin - my very first EVER reply to a blog post anywhere. Kevin made a cruelty to chicken joke and I took him to task over it, and he responded seriously, in charity, and won my heart (yes, Kim, he WON MY HEART!! ;)) AND sucked me into addiction to this blog....but that's for another day.
So if it weren't for animal rights, I wouldn't be blogging here today.
But flies? We're killing 1.4 millions BABIES a year, and there's public outrage over FLIES?!
Yes, folks. Not only that but you can now get an abortion courtesy of the NYT as well. What a progressive and compassionate society we live in!
|
| E-Mail
Author |
|
| RE: PETA PROTESTS FLY-SWATTING [Kevin Miller] |
| 6/18/2009 |
Starting the summer before my senior year in college, I worked for about fifteen months in a biology lab that studied fruit-fly genetics. We killed a lot of fruit flies in our research - we literally ground them up by the cageful in a blender, and we also killed individual flies. Although PETA and similar groups were already around back then, protesting research on dogs and monkeys and the like, no one ever picketed us. I used to wonder why they didn't care about insects as much as about bigger, cuddlier animals. I guess they must have developed a more consistent pro-animal view sometime in the last couple of decades. |
| E-Mail
Author |
|
| THIS YEAR'S UNIVERSITY FACULTY FOR LIFE CONFERENCE [Kevin Miller] |
| 6/18/2009 |
The weekend before last - a week after returning from our honeymoon - Kim and I flew to Minneapolis for the University Faculty for Life conference, which this year was held at the University of St. Thomas law school. I've attended every year since 1995. Kim came along to visit with some of my close friends (including Robert) who were also there, and to meet some of the other regulars, and to experience listening to academic papers - which she found interesting; we had thought that she might want to spend part of Saturday walking around downtown, but between the quality of the papers and the wet weather, she ended up joining me in spending the whole day at the conference.
Several of the talks this year focused on the topic of conscience from philosophical and/or legal perspectives. Two of the three papers in one of the breakout panel sessions I attended addressed this theme: Thomas Cavanaugh, who teaches philosophy at the University of San Francisco and whose book on double-effect reasoning is a favorite of mine, presented "Clarity Concerning Conscience"; and Leonard J. Nelson, of the Samford University law school, delivered "Protection of Conscience" (which I thought was good on the ways in which misuses of the notion of "social justice" have led to attacks on the pro-life conscience, but which was too negative about "social justice" per se).
There was also a plenary session on conscience, at which the University of St. Thomas law school's Robert K. Vischer presented "Conscience and the Common Good: Rethinking the Pro-Life Movement's Commitment to Conscience." I'll definitely be checking out Vischer's forthcoming book, Conscience and the Common Good: Reclaiming the Space Between Person and State (Cambridge Univ. Press, 2009).
Cavanaugh and Vischer each raised the important and provocative question of whether a proper commitment to respect for conscience rights entails rejecting discrimination (in employment, etc.) against the pro-abortion view, as well as against the pro-life view. For instance: Federal law has, for some decades now, forbidden hospitals from discriminating against pro-life physicians. The same law also forbids hospitals from discriminating against physicians who perform abortions elsewhere. Is this as it should be, or is it a mere compromise?
They also raised the related question of whether employment law should always offer full protection to the pro-life conscience. Certainly, the law should permit pharmacies to refuse to cooperate in providing objectionable drugs. Should it also require all pharmacies to refrain from discriminating against employees who which to engage in such refusal? Or should such people look for pro-life employers?
There were other highlights also; I may mention some of them next week. |
| E-Mail
Author |
|
| MORE ON THE YEAR FOR PRIESTS THAT BEGINS TOMORROW [Kevin Miller] |
| 6/18/2009 |
The other day, Pope Benedict XVI issued the letter proclaiming the special year.
This, by the way, seems to be the closest thing to a mention in the letter of the problem of "filth" in the priesthood. After referring to "the countless situations of suffering endured by many priests" and "all those priests who are offended in their dignity, obstructed in their mission and persecuted, even at times to offering the supreme testimony of their own blood," the Holy Father continues:
There are also, sad to say, situations which can never be sufficiently deplored where the Church herself suffers as a consequence of infidelity on the part of some of her ministers. Then it is the world which finds grounds for scandal and rejection. What is most helpful to the Church in such cases is not only a frank and complete acknowledgment of the weaknesses of her ministers, but also a joyful and renewed realization of the greatness of God’s gift, embodied in the splendid example of generous pastors, religious afire with love for God and for souls, and insightful, patient spiritual guides. Here the teaching and example of Saint John Mary Vianney can serve as a significant point of reference for us all. ...
|
| E-Mail
Author |
|
| CREATOR AND SAVIOR [Kevin Miller] |
| 6/19/2009 |
Our Mass readings for this Sunday include some references - explicit or implicit - to God's work of creation. In our first reading, God reminds Job that he alone, the Lord, created the sea and the dry land; he alone therefore confines the sea, stilling its waves at the proper place, so that dry land will remain for us. Our Gospel reading is St. Mark's account of Jesus' stilling of the storm so that the boat will not sink. Jesus is, then, the infinitely transcendent and powerful Lord, the creator of heaven and earth, of stars and planets, of land and sea, the one who holds all things, immense and tiny, in his hand.
Jesus is the Lord God, come among us. This is, of course, worth pondering. The Lord, the Creator of the universe, has come among us in the flesh. Those who were Jesus' disciples during his earthly life, his companions during his time of ministry, were themselves slow to grasp this amazing reality. Sunday's Gospel reading is not the only Gospel passage in which Jesus notes their lack of faith in him. And, of course, those who had not known him, those who even came to hear of him only after his ascension to the Father's right hand and their sending of the Holy Spirit, often thought of him first as only another man; thought of him, that is, only "according to the flesh." In our second reading, St. Paul says that he is among those who once thought of Jesus in this way. He therefore, as we know, had persecuted the Church, the first Christians.
The great mystery of the Incarnation has always been, and will always be, a scandal to some. Today, there are people who consider themselves Catholics but who call this great mystery of our faith into question. This is a problem, especially since the reality of the Incarnation has further important consequences for us.
Our second reading includes another reference, this one explicit, to creation. St. Paul writes that "whoever is in Christ is a new creation." We are perhaps somewhat familiar with this way of speaking; we ought to pause, again, and ponder what it means. We speak of "new creation." Again, we know - somewhat - what "creation" means. God, simply by his own power, made the whole universe and all that is in it from absolutely nothing. When we speak of "new creation," we are indicating that God's saving work in us through Jesus Christ is the same sort of thing. The same power that alone made all things - from subatomic particles to rocks to planets to stars to galaxies; and each of us human persons, too - is at work in us, freeing us from sin and death and giving us to share in the divine nature and life.
It is because Jesus Christ is the Lord God, the Creator, that he is able, through his death and resurrection - through the great actions that we recalled during the Easter season that ended a few weeks ago now - to make us a "new creation," to be our Savior.
When we experience the evils that persist in this fallen world, let us have faith in Jesus Christ, our God, our Creator and Savior. Let us have faith that he will sometimes keep us safe in this world - and that he will, if we cooperate with him, always bring us safely into the peace of his heavenly Kingdom. |
| E-Mail
Author |
|
| PAY IT FORWARD - TWICE OVER [Rachel Watkins] |
| 6/19/2009 |
The concept of 'paying it forward' is one many of us are familiar with. I remembering seeing the movie of the same name with Kevin Spacey, Haley Joel Osment (along w/ a hard to recognize Jim Caveziel) and others. It was a fine movie until the end when there was an unnecessary death and it almost repeated exactly the last scene of "Field of Dreams".
Oh, well. The concept is that when you do good (not if) you do not seek compensation but seek that the recipient of good deed 'pay it forward' to someone else the first opportunity they have.
Yesterday Matt was able to help out a couple of sightseeing in DC. They were caught off guard by the ferocity of the the summer storms and Matt gave them his umbrella. I was impressed and told him and he, appropriately dismissed me. It was what was necessary he said, he would manage without it and they obviously needed it.
Then last night we found ourselves at the parking for our concert (good time was had!) when we discovered the price of the parking was more than we expected and we didn't have enough. (We had also expected to pass an ATM before the venue but did not.)
So, we found ourselves in line to park without enough money. The parking attendant was very kind and while she couldn't do anything about it helped to try to get us turned around so we could go and find some money. The man in the car behind us heard the conversation and quickly offered to pay the small difference.
We parked next to each other and when we asked for his address to send him the money he immediately shrugged and said, "Pay it forward." Which we will....
Now, for some, they will call yesterday karma. Matt did good so good came back to him. We call it being Christian. "If a man asks for you to go one mile.....for a cloak...a loaf of bread..." You get the picture.
Blessed Mother Theresa is well known for her ability to truly pay it forward. There is poem, that while I do not believe was actually written by her, is seen as the anthem of her order:
People are often unreasonable, illogical and self-centered. Forgive them anyway. If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives. Be kind anyway. If you are successful, you will win some false friends and some true enemies. Succeed anyway. If you are honest and frank, people may cheat you. Be honest and frank anyway. What you spend years building, someone may destroy overnight. Build anyway. If you find serenity and happiness, others may be jealous. Be happy anyway. The good you do today, people will often forget tomorrow. Do good anyway. Give the world the best you have, and it may never be enough. Give the world the best you have anyway. Why? Because in the final analysis, all of this is between you and God…. It was never between you and them anyway.
Do good and be good - and pay it forward as ultimately you are - paying all things forward until you reach heaven. |
| E-Mail
Author |
|
Return to top of page.
|
| Pastoral Solutions
Institute Resources |
|
| Recommended Reading |
|
| |
| Contributors |
|
| Links |
Coming soon...
|

This site designed and powered by the Ridgefield
Group. |
|