Monday, July 27, 2009
NOVENA TO ST. JOHN VIANNEY - YEAR OF THE PRIEST [Rachel Watkins]
7/27/2009
Consider beginning this great novena in honor of the year - http://www.ewtn.com/devotionals/novena/Vianney.htm

In that same vein - consider visiting www.eccehomopress.com to download the free activity sheet for ideas on how you and your family can truly celebrate the year well.

You do NOT have to be a part of any Little Flowers or Blue Knights group but can do it as a family or have your kids do it on their own.

I truly hope this year brings great graces to the church as a whole!
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OKAY HISTORY BUFFS - WHOSE JOHN FOXE? [Rachel Watkins]
7/27/2009
I noticed a woman of interesting dress carrying a book entitled, John Foxe's Book of Martyrs. I googled it and found out it is a book listing all the Protestant deaths.

I noticed that the table of contents listed Roman martyr's as well - would they be considered part of the Protestant roll of martyrs??

Honestly, it made me smile. I could help but think of Matt and his beloved Colts - off they go to Indianapolis but what of their records??? They go with the name not the city!! So, while the Ravens can be proud of their own Super Bowl win - all of Johnny Unitas' achievements are attached to the 'new' Colts despite the fact that they were accomplished at the famed 33rd Street stadium!

So, are the Protestants proud of the Roman martyrs?? Even tho' they were Catholic??

How does it work?
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RACHEL, RE: FOXE [Kevin Miller]
7/27/2009

It's sort of like this: In Foxe's view, the early Christians (i.e., the Roman martyrs) were Protestants (not Catholics), and the Catholics of his day were pagans (not Christians).


To borrow a line from Dave Barry: I'm oversimplifying, but I don't care.

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MISSING 15-YEAR-OLD - PRAY! [Pamela H. Pilch]
7/27/2009

6'2", 200 lb and 15 year old Christopher Luke Dillier is missing. He goes by Luke. Luke went along with his brother and mother, to his brother's violin lesson on Friday July 24, 2009 around 9 AM in the area of Coit and 635. He mentioned to his mother that he had forgotten something in the family's van and left the instructor's house to go out and retrieve it. He never returned.

If anyone has any information about his whereabouts, knows of any suspicious activity in the area, or has any other information, please immediately call 911 and relay the information.

Please keep Luke and his family in your prayers.

Luke is a sweet, loyal, intelligent young man - devoted to his faith, family and community. His family is desperate to have him back home with them.

Please send this link to all you can to get Luke's face out there to bring him home quickly and safely.


Luke
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Tuesday, July 28, 2009
HOWDY STRANGERS [Gregory Popcak]
7/28/2009

Sorry for my absence, folks.  I've been in Hong Kong for the last 10 days doing trainings for the priests, counselors, and parents of the Diocese of Hong Kong on the occasion of the Chinese translation of my book, Beyond the Birds and the Bees.  (And before that, I spent about two weeks putting every spare minute into preparing for the series of talks and meetings).


Lisa and I did 5 talks together on the book, and I did a 6th talk specifically for counselors associated with the Diocesan Planning Commission on Marriage and the Family.  It was a wonderful time.  We met with Bishop John Tong (who replaced Cardinal Zen upon his retirement) and were treated to a wonderful time by our hosts. 


It was a very successful trip, and each group we spoke to was very receptive to our message.  They are looking at translating either Holy Sex or For Better...FOREVER! for next year's Hong Kong Book Fair (which has almost 1 million visitors annually).  It is truly humbling to see how this work is having an impact on the other side of the world.  I am grateful that God is using me in some small way to advance the Catholic vision of love in Asia.


More on the trip and some observations in subsequent days.  Right now, I have to get my head back on straight since the jet lag is kicking my butt pretty seriously. 


Thank you all for your support and prayers.

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Wednesday, July 29, 2009
PATIENTS AT WALTER REED, WHO HAVE LOST LIMBS BUT NOT THEIR ABILITY TO LAUGH [Matt Watkins]
7/29/2009

From today's Washington Post, it is inspiring with quotes like -


"What's an amputee's favorite restaurant?" asked Staff Sgt. Brian Schar, who lost both legs in Iraq. "IHOP." or


Patients at Walter Reed competed to print up T-shirts that capture the tone of much of the hospital hallway banter: "Buy a Marine. 25-50 percent off. Some assembly required."


And: "Dude, where's my leg?"


And: "I went to Iraq, lost my leg and all I got was this T-shirt."


One of his best friends had professionally printed on his prosthetic: "I did it for the parking."


Read on and hear the continued heroics of some of America's finest.

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I AM SLIGHTLY SUNBURNT BUT HAPPY - VERY HAPPY [Rachel Watkins]
7/29/2009
Yesterday, was my 25th wedding anniversary!! TADA!! 25 years. Now for some folks, that makes them also old (or at least older than me). But in that Matt and I married young, I am celebrating 25 years with a 2 year old tow...

We spent the day at Fenwick Beach in Delaware with the 7 kids who are home and had a great, amazing time. The next day from a beach trip is always fun as you see the spots of red where you didn't get the sunscreen (and now need aloe) and piles of sandy, damp towels and suits to wash.

During our visit we met a nice family whose youngest daughter Grace played happily with our crew. It was a day of the typical - how many kids, what is life like, how old did you say you were???

Those encounters are usual when you travel as a pack and unload like a circus car of clowns!

At the end of such days, I am not looking to impress anyone - really. All I am hoping to do is have these people walk away with a picture of Catholic large family life as normal, typical and perhaps, even achievable.

Perhaps dismissing some of the ideas people get from the reality shows about large families, perhaps seeing us not as folks who would make nice neighbors or friends. After all, it is from those type of relationships that true change can occur.
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WELCOME BACK, POPCAKS!! [Rachel Watkins]
7/29/2009
We are glad to hear you returned safely, we will change our evening prayers from "God Bless the Popcaks as they change China" back to "God Bless the Popcaks as they change us!" :-)
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HOLY COINCIDENCE! [Rachel Watkins]
7/29/2009
While I was sunburning at Fenwick Beach yesterday, I just found out that my two older daughters - in formation in religious life - spent part of their own vacation visiting my parents!

Their vacation is often spent in the Finger Lakes area of NY State and in the past they have hiked and picnicked at Stony Brook State Park just outside my hometown. After some phone calls and arranging of details - they were able to connect with my sister who delivered them to my parents for a long overdue visit.

This holy coincidence gives me the chills and brings tears to my eyes. Due to my parents' health, and my daughters' commitments and schedule they have not seen each other for over 2 years and there they were visiting with them as Matt and I were celebrating our anniversary with the younger set of the kids.

It was such a wonderful anniversary gift from God as my parents 'aren't too sure about this consecrated thing they are doing'. I spoke with my mother this morning who told me that they looked lovely and were both so poised and happy!!

It did this mother's heart good to hear a compliment from her own mother.

Thank you, Father, who knows how to give a child what they need! Thank you, Blessed Mother, for being a mother to my own children far away and my parents as they get closer than ever to seeing you.


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CONFESSION WITH YOUR KIDS [Rachel Watkins]
7/29/2009
Taking your kids to confession (along with yourself) is a great tool for better behavior never mentioned in secular books. Sure, they talk about time outs, pausing to reflect on their actions and then making amends - all three of which are integral parts of Confession.

Please make it a regular part of your family schedule. Now, many parents will shrug this off and think, 'hey, my kid is pretty terrific, I've got nothing to complain about!' But, few parents realize that confession is a time your child gets to talk to God - setting aside the priest across the way - and pray to see Jesus!

The recommendation for once every six weeks or so is good while some families/movements/etc. use every month. Find a time that fits for your family, your parish's schedule and put it down! Every third Saturday?? How about one Friday a month when you invite your priest over for some pizza?? Getting it done at your home can make it easier!

Give them a chance to clear their conscience, feel better and begin a habit of reflection on their actions that will serve them well throughout their lives.

Here is a very good examination for kids that might also give you food for thought!

EXAMINATION OF CONSCIENCE

Did I pay attention at Mass?
Have I fooled around in Church?
Did I say my prayers every day?
Did I say mean things to my mom or dad?
Did I always say "Thank You" to people?
Am I hard to get along with (during school, at Grandmaīs, at home?)?
Did I do what my mom and dad told me to do? My teacher?
Was I lazy around the house?
Did I do my chores?
Did I hurt others peopleīs feelings by calling them bad names?
Have I started fights with my brothers and sisters at home?
Have I blamed other people for things I do?
Did I get other people into trouble?
Do I hit people when I get mad?
Have I forgiven people? Or am I holding a grudge?
Have I cheated or been unfair in games?
Did I refuse to play with someone for no good reason?
Was I was lazy about my schoolwork?
Did I fail to do my homework?
Did I cheat in school?
How many times did I lie to my parents? My teachers? My friends?
Did I take anything that didnīt belong to me?
Did I avoid medicine? Did I refuse to eat food I didnīt like?

A GUIDE TO CONFESSION
How to go to Confession
1. You always have the option to go to confession anonymously, that is, behind a screen or face to face, if you so desire.

2. After the priest greets you in the name of Christ, make the sign of the cross, after which you say: "Bless me Father for I have sinned. It has been (state how long) since my last confession. These are my sins."

3. Tell your sins simply and honestly to the priest. You might even want to discuss the circumstances and the root causes of your sins and ask the priest for advice or direction.

4. Listen to the advice the priest gives you and accept the penance from him. Then make an Act of Contrition for your sins.

5. The priest will then dismiss you with the words of praise: "Give thanks to the Lord for He is good. You respond: "For His mercy endures forever." The priest will then conclude with: "The Lord has freed you from your sins. Go in peace." And you respond by saying: "Thanks be to God."

6. Spend some time with Our Lord thanking and praising Him for the gift of His mercy. Try to perform your penance as soon as possible.


AN ACT OF CONTRITION

Oh my God,
I am sorry for my sins with all my heart.
In choosing to do wrong
And failing to do good,
I have sinned against you
whom I should love above all things.
I firmly intend, with your help,
to do penance,
to sin no more,
and to avoid whatever leads me to sin.
Our Savior Jesus Christ
suffered and died for us.
In His name, my God, have mercy. Amen.




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Thursday, July 30, 2009
A SIGH OF RELIEF GOSPEL [Rachel Watkins]
7/30/2009
I will admit that I am unsure of the end times. This goes beyond no one knowing the date and time stuff but I am also a bit uneasy about the entire idea of tribulation and what that might encompass.

Some of this unease comes from my inappropriate curiosity about it as a teen and indiscriminate reading I did from both secular and other Christian sources. As a result of this, and my own personality, I can get 'wigged out' as they say if I give it much thought - so I don't.

But, it does come up from time to time especially when you have children. Right now, my almost 6 yr. old daughter has decided that she doesn't want to grow up. She would like to get to be 7 yrs. old as that will mean she can read on her own, but doesn't want to be any older.

In this hunt for eternal youth, she has made two decisions - she will NOT blow out the candles on her birthday when she turns 7 which will keep her from growing up. She is also praying very hard for Jesus to come before she makes it to 8.

I think both are fine ideas but I am praying for wisdom from Mary on how to break the news to her that the candle thing won't work - but I'll not tackle that idea until we get there. And the praying for Jesus is what brought up end-times worries for me.

I did my best to set them aside but the train of apocalyptic thought was careening my head all morning. Then I did my morning meditation with today's gospel and received the sigh of relief that I needed.

Matthew 13: 47-53

Jesus said to his disciples: "The Kingdom of heaven is like a net thrown into the sea, which collects fish of every kind. When it is full they haul it ashore and sit down to put what is good into buckets. What is bad they throw away. Thus it will be at the end of the age. The angels will go out and separate the wicked from the righteous and throw them into the fiery furnace, where there will be wailing and grinding of teeth. "Do you understand all these things?" They answered, "Yes." And he replied, "Then every scribe who has been instructed in the Kingdom of heaven is like the head of a household who brings from his storeroom both the new and the old." When Jesus finished these parables, he went away from there.


Jesus has a plan for the end times, He will take care of everything - including me and my family. God will judge us as appropriate and I am hopeful that the angels will see us as good and put us into a bucket!

I don't know the details but I've learned that I don't need to - sometimes knowing (or thinking you know) too much is not a good thing.

This gospel doesn't solve my 5 yr. olds problem, but I know that when the time come for her to know the full truth - she'll be ready and able to handle it. I know I will as well.


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ON BECOMING POLITICALLY ACTIVE - MY SIMPLE 2 CENTS.... [Rachel Watkins]
7/30/2009
The good news is that the healthcare vote will probably wait until after the August recess. The bad news is that Obama and team will be ready.

What can you do? I know it seems that we can do nothing as the numbers seems against us and we seem so far from DC, and anyone with real power, to make a change. While that may be true it does not mean you shouldn't (and perhaps aren't required to) do something. You may be limited by other commitments. You may not feel comfortable 'getting involved'. You may feel that unless you can do everything, you will won't anything. All of these thoughts are comfortable but rarely true.

I believe that to be faithful to Christ and His teachings, the virtues of justice and love, we should at least make our opinion known. Your elected officials may ignore them but you can stand and know you exercised your right to freedom of speech.

Five 'easy' ways to get involved?

One - go out and buy a pile of pre-stamped postcards. Take some time during your next hour of TV and address them to your representatives both locally and nationally. Have them all ready to send a message - both of support and criticism. When an issue comes up - such as the healthcare bill - send a quick message letting them know of your opinion. It can be as simple as VOTE NO or YES! on bill such and such or a more lengthy response as to the why of the vote.

Two- make an e-mail loop of these same representatives and do the same as above except electronically.

Three - do both one and two.

Four - sign up for e-mail alerts from organizations you support and follow up on their requests to notifying your officials. Most organizations have links that allow to send your opinions via their site or e-mail.

Five - Do one, two and four.

You can be involved from your home, with little or no cost outside of stamps and you can get your kids to help. One of my sons made my e-mail loop while two of my daughters helped address the cards. It is hard explaining to them when the votes don't go our way but I've found they understand disappointment and then remind me to keep praying!

In fact, that would be the sixth - and perhaps best - way to help. Pray for our leaders! Pray daily that they act in a Godly manner and seeking His wisdom before anyone else's knowledge.

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Friday, July 31, 2009
OUR SAVING AND EUCHARISTIC FAITH [Kevin Miller]
7/31/2009

In the second of our readings at Mass this Sunday, we hear St. Paul's exhortation to the Ephesians to "put on the new self." A better translation would be "put on the new man." This "new man" is Jesus Christ. Paul writes more explicitly elsewhere, perhaps most famously to the Romans - this is the passage that played an important role in leading to St. Augustine's conversion - of putting on Christ. How do we do this? We do it especially through the sacraments. In his letter to the Galatians, Paul singles out Baptism for special mention. We might also - especially in connection with this Sunday's other readings - mention the Holy Eucharist. Clearly, Jesus' multiplication of the loaves - about which we heard last week - and his subsequent discourse refer to the Eucharist.


His discourse does not refer only to the Eucharist. The first part of the discourse, which we hear this week, refers especially for the need for faith in Jesus Christ. This already brings union with Christ, to be completed in love. It is already the beginning of putting on Christ, and hence of renewal and sanctification.


We might add, though, that part of faith in Christ is, precisely, faith in what he says, in what the Church continues to teach, concerning the Eucharistic mystery. As the ancient Israelites were called to have faith that God would provide bread to nourish them in the desert, so we are called to have faith that God will provide, under the appearance of bread, Jesus Christ to nourish us in this world.


I have written before about the content of our Eucharistic faith. By way of a very brief summary of the two most important elements of this faith: In the Holy Eucharist, Jesus is really, truly, and substantially present. Also, the Eucharist is the re-presentation of Jesus' sacrifice on the Cross. When we think about Jesus' "Bread of Life" discourse, we perhaps think especially of his real presence in the Eucharist. There is also in this section of St. John's Gospel a hint at the sacrificial character of the Eucharist, in the Evangelist's mention that the multiplication of the loaves comes when Passover is near - as does Jesus' crucifixion and death, when his Body and Blood are given to us.


Faith in Jesus Christ's presence and activity in the Holy Eucharist - leading to constant reverence for this great mystery, and to worthy and fruitful reception of Holy Communion - is indeed a key to our saving renewal in Christ, to our preparation for eternal life. May God grant to us and to the whole Church a strengthening of this faith. May he grant this faith also to those who have not yet attained it - to all the world.

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WELCOME BACK, KOTTER POPCAK! [Kevin Miller]
7/31/2009

Good to have you back in Ohio and online.

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THE LATEST STEM-CELL STUFF [Kevin Miller]
7/31/2009

This is from last week (I've been awfully busy with work so am just getting around to posting it now): "Mice produced from adult cells: Chinese researchers validate process"


This is good news. Clearly, it would be immoral to do this with human iPS cells (since we would then be creating, and then destroying, embryonic human beings). But it wouldn't be necessary to do this with human iPS cells in order to turn them into useful tissues (any more than actual embryonic stem cells are turned back into whole embryos before being used in this way). Nor - as some people are apparently claiming - does this mean that iPS cells are themselves the equivalent of embryos (so that if using iPS cells is morally acceptable, then destroying embryos is too). On this, see an NRO article that ran earlier last week.

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POPE BENEDICT XVI: "TRUE POWER IS THE POWER OF GRACE AND MERCY" [Kevin Miller]
7/31/2009

Please read this and ponder it. (It's the answer to - among others - people like Novak.)

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AMONG THE THINGS THAT I'M BEHIND ON MENTIONING IS THE FACT THAT THIS WEEK THE ANNUAL EAA AIRVENTURE HAS BEEN TAKING PLACE IN OSHKOSH, WI [Kevin Miller]
7/31/2009

AirVenture web site.


JS coverage: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5.


And there's also a PG article today.


If you think that flight is cool (and if you aren't crazy, you do), check out the links.





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