Monday, August 03, 2009
WHAT TO DO WITH THOSE WADERS YOU'VE GOT WITH HOLES?? [Rachel Watkins]
8/3/2009
This is a question that plagues HMS readers - I know it. You've got a pair of waders that you loved, your lucky waders that helped you catch more than a few keepers which became dinner around the campfire.

But, in a freak fishing accident you pierced your waders with your scaler or as you were pulling out a fishhook. As a result, you've got a hole in the waders that makes them useless. Or are they??

www.recycledwaders.com is the place for you. Pat Jenkins began to recycle his own waders several years ago into gear pouches, fanny packs, creels and wallets.

Damaged but still useable breathable waders, wading belts, or jackets are cleaned and recut into other gear every outdoorsperson needs. Prices range from around $20 to $60 - not bad to recycle, reduce and reuse.

Clean out your gear closet, check out the site and help out the planet.

(In absolute seriousness - many of my family members are avid outdoors men/women; with my oldest brother a NY State Dept. of Conservation officer so this site is really of use.)
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YOU'RE INVITED - PLEASE COME AND NO RSVP REQUIRED [Rachel Watkins]
8/3/2009
When: Tomorrow, August 4th

Where: Pick a church, almost any church

What: Adoration for Vocations


The Holy Father has asked us to join in praying for vocations on August 4th, in honor of John Vianney's anniversary.

Many, if not most, parishes are responding and my own parish is as well with a Holy Hour and Benediction tomorrow from 7-8 pm

Please, please make time to find out what is available in your diocese and attend - bring all of your kids and spend some time both in thanksgiving of the priests who are serving us now and for the priests (and religious) yet to come. If you feel so inclined I'd appreciate a shout out for my children in religious life - we would really appreciate it.

And WHEN you go - be sure to let God know that you are open to a vocation in your own family. God does the calling but we have to let Him know He is welcome; much like a suitor asking for permission to court. While a wedding might happen without or without a parents' permission it is much easier all the way around if it is done in an atmosphere of acceptance and joy all the way around.

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Tuesday, August 04, 2009
MY LIFE WITH MS WRITTEN BY SOMEONE ELSE... [Rachel Watkins]
8/4/2009
The headline about an author w/ MS caught my eye as I was pursuing the USAToday website. I've not heard of Stephen White, nor read any of his books but his MS diagnosis caught my eye.

I read the interview with great interest and then with chills as his life with MS is my life. I could not have describe it better myself.

If you have any interest in reading about life with MS check this out:

http://www.usatoday.com/news/health/2009-08-03-stephen-white_N.htm

I plan on printing out a copy and saving it to give to anyone who sees me and then refusing to believe I have MS says in an uncaring way, "But you LOOK so healthy!"

I know they mean well but it can come across as unkind, as if I am making it up. Why would I lie about having MS??

Should you ever encounter anyone who discloses an illness that they don't 'appear' to have, don't tell them they don't 'look' it. There are times I wish I did - I wish I turned purple or broke out in spots - having a clearly visible sign of my illness would be helpful when I get rude looks for walking more slowly than others as I shop or when I have to say 'no' to an invitation to go out or help with something because I know will be more than I can handle.

If you run into someone who wants to confide in you their illness the best thing you can offer them is not an assurance that they look great (though we like hearing that from time to time), really what we want to hear is that our illness or struggle will not negatively impact on our friendship, that you will understand our limitations and you will be there if we need some moral support or words of encouragement.

For while Billy Crystal did a great schtick on Saturday Night Live with the tagline, "You loook mah-ve-lous!" and the assertion that "looking marvelous is better than feeling mah-ve-lous" anyone who has a chronic illness will gladly look like hell if they could just feel normal!


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Wednesday, August 05, 2009
FEAST OF JOHN VIANNEY - PRAYING FOR PRIESTS (OR NOT) [Rachel Watkins]
8/5/2009
Yesterday was the Feast of the Cure of Ars - St. John Vianney. The only (yes, only) parish priest who is a saint. His story is well familiar to most of us so I won't reiterate it. His life has resulted in him being given the task (some might say thankless) of being the patron saint of parish priests.

I find it amusing to consider as he was a man who endure regular attacks from Satan including having his bed catch on fire. One might want to stretch it and say some parish priests might consider encounters with Satan easier than encounters with some parishoners! In addition, he spent hours in the confessional which was surely to avoid committee meetings!

No, in all seriousness he is wonderful heavenly protector of our priests who deserve it.

My bishop, Bishop Francis Malooley, asked all his parishes to schedule a Holy Hour and Benediction in support of priests and to ask God for yesterday evening from 7-8pm.

You will not be surprised to know that it was very sparsely attended. Granted, I am sure the time was awkward for some but as school has not started, nor has sports practices, I was stunned by the number of people not there!

I couldn't help but think of that old adage from the 60's - if you aren't a part of the solution, you are part of the problem.

How many of the folks who found it inconvenient to come and give up an hour for prayer complain about the shortage of priests? How many of these same folks see the priesthood as unnecessary and archaic? How many will be outraged when a parish has to close due to lack of vocations?

I know I am being critical and harsh but I was actually hurt. So many folks who I expected to see I didn't, and I couldn't help but think they don't like our priests at our parish as much as I thought they did. I couldn't help but want to apologize to these excellent men of God. How did they feel to see only 10 or so of the several hundred who belong to our parish?

I then thought of my brother - an Army military chaplain - and my son, a soon-to-be seminarian - is the lack of support they face or will face?

Doesn't quite seem fair does it? They do so much and we do so little.
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GUESS WHAT? DR. GREG IS RIGHT! [Rachel Watkins]
8/5/2009
From www.ncregister.com:

http://www.ncregister.com/daily/americas_depressing_reality/

A new study published in the Archives of General Psychiatry reports that the number of Americans taking antidepressant drugs doubled between 1996 and 2005.

According to the study, a startling “10% of Americans — or 27 million people — were taking antidepressants in 2005, the last year for which data were available at the time the study was written,” USA Today reported on Monday.

In addition:

But for some patients who are dealing with depression, a different approach has proven effective: the time-tested Benedictine prescription of ora et labora — pray and work. In this article we published in our May 24-30 print issue, Register correspondent Marge Fenelon reported that combining constructive physical activity with a sound prayer life “can be as efficacious as modern medicines at managing the two most frequently diagnosed mental-health maladies of our day: clinical depression and anxiety disorders.”

And, it should be noted, there are centuries of empirical data that confirms there are no negative side effects resulting from the ora et labora approach.

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IN THE GLORY OF GOD THE FATHER [Kevin Miller]
8/5/2009

Tomorrow we celebrate the great feast of the Transfiguration of the Lord. Our focus is on the revelation of the glory of our Lord Jesus Christ. I would like to note the indications in all three of our Scripture readings for the Mass for the feast that this glory is a share in that of the Father. In the prophet Daniel's vision, the "one like a Son of man" "receives" glory from the Ancient One. And the accounts of the transfiguration by Sts. Peter and (quite possibly drawing from him) Mark refer to the Father's voice identifying the transfigured Christ as his beloved Son. The glory of Jesus Christ is the glory of the Son, of the one who is begotten of the Father before all ages, who is true God of true God, who is of the same substance with the Father. It is the glory of the Son, the begotten - but also, and indeed "first" ([theo]logically, not temporally!), that of the Father, the begetter. It is the glory of the Son that reveals him as the Son, and that reveals the glory of the Father. It is the glory of the one who is the perfect image and revelation of the Father.


It is a glory that is always already received and shared. It is a glory that we, too, are called to receive. We are not sons (or daughters) of God by nature. There is a vast difference, a difference that dwarfs any similarity, between Christ's sharing by nature in the Father's glory, and our sharing through Christ by grace in that same glory. And yet, there is a similarity. It is indeed the same glory of the Father; and our sharing in it, coming by grace through Christ, is therefore a participation in Christ's sharing in it, is therefore like Christ's. The glory of the Father is also the glory of the Father's Son and of the Father's sons and daughters.


May we too, by listening obediently to the Son, come to share fully in the perfect glory of God the Father.

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Thursday, August 06, 2009
THE BEAUTY OF THE PREACHER [Kevin Miller]
8/6/2009

Saturday is the feast of our Holy Father St. Dominic, founder of the Order of Preachers (of whose lay branch I am a member). The Dominican lectionary readings for Mass for the feast begin with the prophet Isaiah's words, "How beautiful upon the mountains are the feet of him who brings glad tidings ..." What does it mean to apply these words to St. Dominic, and to those who follow in his way of preaching? What is the preacher's glad and beautiful message, in the beauty of which the preacher himself shares?


Isaiah says that the glad tidings are those that are "announcing peace, ... announcing salvation." Imagine being in a country that has long been attacked and oppressed by an evil ruler from elsewhere. Suddenly, a messenger arrives, over the horizon, with word of deliverance and true peace. Surely this would be a beautiful message. This, we are told, is the message of the one who preaches for the glory of God and the salvation of souls. It is above all a message of salvation and peace. It is also, therefore, a message about the God who brings us this salvation and peace, and about the actions by which he does so, and about the actions by which he calls us to enter into his salvation and peace. It is a message about the whole of Catholic "faith and morals" - the Trinity, the Incarnation, the death and resurrection and ascension of Christ and his sending of the Holy Spirit, the Church, the Last Things, the Sacraments and Liturgy, and morality, and prayer. It is a message that, perhaps, insists especially upon those elements of faith and morals that are rejected by many of one's contemporaries. But it is, above all, a message of glad tidings, of good news, of peace and salvation. It is a message of God's victorious love.


May God grant us to participate in this message - to hear and accept and preach it. And may we joyfully honor St. Dominic on this day and be helped by his example and intercession.

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MAKING EXCUSES [Gregory Popcak]
8/6/2009

It seems all I had do on this blog these days is make excuses for why I'm not here, but since I've been back from Hong Kong, I've been both exhausted and sick.  I'm on the mend, but the cold I got once I got back combined with the extreme jet lag and has been wiping me out. 


I appreciate your patience, and I promise to start participating meaningfully in the coming weeks.  In the meantime, my thanks to those who are continuing to carry the HMS Blog banner.

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END-OF-SUMMER VACATION [Kevin Miller]
8/6/2009

Kim and I are taking next week off. I'm going to post something on Saturday's feast of St. Dominic. After that, I'll be off blog (and mostly offline otherwise) till at least into the week after next (blogging will remain very light for a while after that with the beginning-of-semester busyness) - i.e., I will not be posting on the readings for the next two Sundays or for the feast of the Assumption.


Hmm. I'm going to be on vacation. Greg is sick. Pam is dealing with the aftermath of her mother's death. Everyone else is just plain missing.


Rachel, can you carry the blog alone?

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MOST INACCURATE HISTORICAL MOVIES MADE [Rachel Watkins]
8/6/2009
I found this link:

http://entertainment.timesonline.co.uk/tol/arts_and_entertainment/film/article6738785.ece?token=null&offset=12&page=2

The list includes most of Mel Gibson's movies so I was expecting to see "The Passion of the Christ" there as well but thankfully didn't.

If you have the time - check out some of the comments as well. I would agree with all those who assert that I don't go to movies expecting total historical accuracy as that is what documentaries are for.

I also agree with readers who noticed that Oliver Stone or Ron Howard isn't mentioned at all. Apparently all of their movies are very accurate (cough, cough).

And finally I agree with those who say that minimal accuracy should be expected - my beef (pun intended) is with the kid's movie, "Barnyard" where the male cow has an UDDER!!! I just couldn't stand it. I can handle the issues w/ such movie as Ice Age as it is strictly entertainment but couldn't get a handle on why they insisted on drawing an udder!!??

The other movie I would have added would be "Beautiful Mind". My nephew is a huge fan of John Forbes Nash and Ron Howard (as usual) exaggerated certain his story when the real story is so much more interesting.
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Friday, August 07, 2009
CAN I MAKE A TRIP TO MIAMI AS BUSINESS EXPENSE?? [Rachel Watkins]
8/7/2009
Or can I get HMS or Greg to pay my way???

I soooo want to go to the JPII Film Fest being planned in Miami, Oct. 30-Nov. 1.

Any readers of this blog know I really like movies - all kinds of movies - and this would surely be a weekend of GREAT movies.

I'm beginning to feel a whine coming on - I NEED TO GET TO MIAMI!!!

http://www.ncregister.com/daily/jpii_film_festival/
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I'M HERE! I'M HERE! [Pamela H. Pilch]
8/7/2009

Hey, Kevin and Rachel - I'm coming back to blog again!  I've been wanting to get back after the crazy and difficult year and a half we've had - first with my toddler's leukemia diagnosis last year, followed by my mother's diagnosis with recurrent breast cancer, which just took her life one month ago.  There has been a lot going on, but now my mother is at peace with the Lord (though we miss her so terribly I can't even say), and Jonathan is stable.


I have been reading the blog all along, and think I may be able to come back and carry some more.


But watch out, Kevin - leave it to Rachel and me and it will be pretty, er, feminine when you get back.  No grunting, no hairy chests....absolutely no beer (okay maybe a touch of Hefeweizen here and there) or sports....


We'll even put up the lace curtains.   And hide the remote.


Look out!!


I hope you and Kim have a wonderful relaxing week off, and good luck getting into the groove of the new semester.


And blessings to you on the Feast of St. Dominic, the founder of your order!

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DO YOU 'HATE' YOUR LIFE?? [Rachel Watkins]
8/7/2009
Sure you do, don't you. Admit it, there are parts of your life you absolutely hate. Is it the laundry, grocery shopping, or commuting? Hopefully, it is not your spouse or children; for while they may annoy you, hopefully you never reach the 'hate' stage with them.

Admitting this about yourself you might read John's gospel and think great, I've got this one down pat:
John 12:25:
“The man who loves his life loses it, while the man who hates his life in this world preserves it to life eternal.”

Today's reading from Matthew 16:24-28 is similar -
"Jesus said to his disciples,
“Whoever wishes to come after me must deny himself,
take up his cross, and follow me.
For whoever wishes to save his life will lose it,
but whoever loses his life for my sake will find it."

Right there, Jesus is asking you to hate your life and you do - in spades.

BUT - the hating Jesus is asking for has little to do with the emotion that we direct towards other people and things but more so what we direct to ourselves.

Do you hate - have extreme or passionate dislike - for the fact that you don’t like choosing God’s will over your own? Do you hate that you are selfish, demanding, negative? Do you hate that you prefer your own comforts over serving someone else? That is hate that God wants you to foster - a hatred of anything that takes your gaze off of Him (He is, after all, a jealous God) or prevents you from doing His will.

And, in case you didn’t know, loving and serving your children and spouse is a part of His will. You don’t really ever have to love grocery shopping but you have to do it. You don’t have to love cooking dinner, clean the toilets or change the sheets but get it done. You do have to love, love, love the people in your life but the things in your life can be up for grabs! Hate your life but be sure you are hating the right things!
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ECOLOGICAL BREASTFEEDING AND WORLD BREASTFEEDING WEEK [Pamela H. Pilch]
8/7/2009

This week has been World Breastfeeding Week.  Due to the chaos in my life, I haven't been able to mark it too well, but my good friend Sheila Kippley has been blogging on ecological breastfeeding every day.  I encourage everyone who may be new to ecological breastfeeding to read her posts from the whole week!  (Click on "Blog".)  Here's one to start you off:



Professionals and clergy can change.  Dr. Otto Schaefer, a German doctor, went to the Inuits in Canada, teaching the merits of formula.  He wrote down everything he observed and soon realized he was dead wrong about formula.  The observed facts led him to conclude that “breastfeeding had a greater influence on the life and health of infants than any other single factor” and that “the traditional Inuit custom of breastfeeding up until the age of three years…provided an effective type of birth control.” 


            Breastfeeding is God’s plan for baby care and baby spacing.  Today the Catholic Church speaks out against contraception in Humanae Vitae, and many in the Church promote natural family planning by charting the woman’s fertility and promoting the theology of the body.  John and I have promoted and taught ecological breastfeeding to space babies since 1969.  The research is there.  Ecological breastfeeding has so many health and emotional benefits for the mother and baby, including natural child spacing, that it should no longer be ignored by other NFP organizations, the clergy or church representatives.


            Learn God’s plan for natural child spacing by reading The Seven Standards of Ecological Breastfeeding: The Frequency Factor.  Learn how the “theology of the body” is related to breastfeeding by reading Breastfeeding and Catholic Motherhood.

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STAR TREK AS PROPHETIC?? [Rachel Watkins]
8/7/2009
I am trying to make my 12 yr. old son a Trekkie. Not a convention going, Vulcan ear wearing Trekkie but a fan of a show I loved growing up and still do.

So, we've been watching episodes off of cbs.com and are ready to move onto the movies. Not the first one as that one was a real stinker but onto "The Wrath of Khan" with the late, great Ricardo Montalban.

So, last night we watched the original episode that introduced us to his character, "The Space Seed". I didn't remember it well and wanted to give both of us an understanding of it before the movie.

I was STUNNED - do you know/remember that episode? It dealt with Khan, a 'superman', with extraordinary strength, charisma and intelligence as a result of genetic manipulation. All the result of scientists working to improve the human race as a whole and resulting in 'the last great Earth wars' as the series said "the Eugenics Wars of the 1990's." The 1990's!!!

Wars that almost killed our planet as scientists played around with our genetics, created a race of Alexanders, who in their superiority sought to control the whole world.

I couldn't help but laugh a bit at the notion but then shuddered to realize how close it comes to what happens now every day. Parents choosing life and death for their babies based on genetic testing. People like Peter Singer who feel that a smart border collie has more value than a disabled person and, sadly, even government officials and agencies who would seek abortion for those deemed unfit, or death for those seemingly too elderly or disabled to be of benefit to society.

William Shatner's acting abilities aside, his character got it right when at the end, when the genetically inferior Star Trek crew regained control of the Enterprise - he did not lord over Khan but set him on a planet of his own. Mercy it would seem.

But, wasted mercy as it turns out, as Khan is not a happy camper then they meet again but that will wait for movie night next weekend! I can't wait!
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GOING TO WYOMING? BRING YOUR CHAINSAW! [Rachel Watkins]
8/7/2009
BILLINGS, Montana (AP) — A Colorado man used a chain saw to fight off an apparently starving mountain lion that attacked him during a camping trip in northwestern Wyoming with his wife and two toddlers.
Dustin Britton, a 32-year-old mechanic and ex-Marine from Windsor, Colo., said he was alone cutting firewood about 100 feet from his campsite in the Shoshone National Forest when he saw the 100-pound lion staring at him from some bushes.

The 6-foot tall, 170-pound Britton said he raised his chain saw and met the lion head-on as it pounced — a collision he described as feeling like a grown man running directly into him.


Read the whole story: http://www.usatoday.com/news/nation/2009-07-17-lion-attack_N.htm?obref=obinsite
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RIP - JOHN HUGHES - DIRECTOR/WRITER [Rachel Watkins]
8/7/2009
Admitting to my age and my likes/dislikes when growing up, I was sad to hear of the death of writer/director John Hughes.

He gave us iconic 80's films such as "Home Alone", "Ferris Bueller's Day Off" and all of the Brat Pack movies. Will you find me shallow and lacking in taste if I admit I liked those movies?

I can remember learning the words to Simple Minds, "Don't You Forget About Me" from the Breakfast Club. That same song was a theme of a retreat I attended during those same years with the song being directed towards God. Lousy catechesis I know, but at the time I found it inspiring during those challenging teen/young adult years.

I realize the lack of depth in the movies now but still enjoy some of the memorable lines and jokes. Matt is prone to spouting some of them - a favorite is the give and take between John Candy and Macauley Culkin in "Uncle Buck" where the questions and interrogation of 'Uncle Buck' (Candy's character) keep going until Culkin's character finally ends it by giving the line, "I'm a kid, it's my job." I like to remember that when my kids are just being kids.


Check out the story: http://www.usatoday.com/life/people/2009-08-06-john-hughes_N.htm
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I FULLY SUPPORT BREAST-FEEDING BUT THIS IS TOO MUCH - [Rachel Watkins]
8/7/2009
Not a big fan of Kathie Lee Gifford but I agree that this doll pushes the creep factor -

From the Today Show website: "The Spanish manufacturers of Bebe Gloton — “Baby Glutton” in English — say the doll is meant to encourage nurturing in young girls and to promote breast-feeding."

The doll comes with a vest for the child to wear with 'daisies' where her breasts would be. The doll then makes suckling noises when brought close enough. (we won't even go into the issues of boys playing with this doll!)

Wanna see the video??
http://today.msnbc.msn.com/id/26184891/vp/32314414#32314414

Now, all of my daughters 'pretended' to nurse dolls when I would nurse the newest baby in the house but they needed no electronics to do so. This doll is just another in a long line of toys that annoy me for making what is natural and innocent into a techno-annoying toy.

Toys that were once just wood or plastic now requiring batteries with no volume control. The top of this list for me would be the simple Fisher-Price wind-up 'radio'. I went through a few of those with my first babies. They were green and yellow, turn the yellow handle and 'Toyland' played as a train went around in a small window. All of my first three kids (now young adults) had one they would carry around, take to bed and enjoy. No batteries, no lights, low volume and easy. Sure they all over-wound it but it you set it down for awhile they always seemed to get into the right synch.

Not easily found now but I'm welcome to glaring, flashing lights, battery-laden techno-music and ear-piercing volume. Annoying!!
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